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authorPaul Buetow <paul@buetow.org>2025-02-21 11:09:30 +0200
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+## Table of Contents
+
+* [⇢ "Never split the difference" book notes](#never-split-the-difference-book-notes)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Tactical listening, spreading empathy](#tactical-listening-spreading-empathy)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Mindset of discovery](#mindset-of-discovery)
+* [⇢ ⇢ ⇢ More tips ](#more-tips-)
+* [⇢ ⇢ "No" starts the conversation](#no-starts-the-conversation)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Win-win](#win-win)
+* [⇢ ⇢ On Deadlines](#on-deadlines)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Analyse the opponent](#analyse-the-opponent)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Use different ways of saying "no."](#use-different-ways-of-saying-no)
+* [⇢ ⇢ Calibrated question](#calibrated-question)
+* [⇢ ⇢ The black swan ](#the-black-swan-)
+* [⇢ ⇢ More](#more)
+
## Tactical listening, spreading empathy
Be a mirror, copy each other to be comfy with each other to build up trust. Mirroring is mainly body language. A mirror is to repeat the words the other just said. Simple but effective.
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Slow.... it.... down....
-Other book notes of mine are:
+E-Mail your comments to `paul@nospam.buetow.org` :-)
-[2023-03-16 "The Pragmatic Programmer" book notes](./2023-03-16-the-pragmatic-programmer-book-notes.md)
-[2023-04-01 "Never split the difference" book notes (You are currently reading this)](./2023-04-01-never-split-the-difference-book-notes.md)
-[2023-05-06 "The Obstacle is the Way" book notes](./2023-05-06-the-obstacle-is-the-way-book-notes.md)
-[2023-07-17 "Software Developmers Career Guide and Soft Skills" book notes](./2023-07-17-career-guide-and-soft-skills-book-notes.md)
-[2023-11-11 "Mind Management" book notes](./2023-11-11-mind-management-book-notes.md)
+Other book notes of mine are:
-E-Mail your comments to `paul@nospam.buetow.org` :-)
+[2024-10-24 "Staff Engineer" book notes](./staff-engineer.md)
+[2024-07-07 "The Stoic Challenge" book notes](./the-stoic-challenge.md)
+[2024-05-01 "Slow Productivity" book notes](./slow-productivity.md)
+[2023-11-11 "Mind Management" book notes](./mind-management.md)
+[2023-07-17 "Software Developmers Career Guide and Soft Skills" book notes](./career-guide-and-soft-skills.md)
+[2023-05-06 "The Obstacle is the Way" book notes](./the-obstacle-is-the-way.md)
+[2023-04-01 "Never split the difference" book notes (You are currently reading this)](./never-split-the-difference.md)
+[2023-03-16 "The Pragmatic Programmer" book notes](./the-pragmatic-programmer.md)
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